she says she will swap with you. Then the next day she will find out what she is trading you for is worth more and will want more coupons/stamps or a gift card. Be careful!!! Also, there has been a complaint about someone receiving SPAM to their email account after a swap with DFM. (many more complaints about spam have been received). Just got another complaint about her asking for more this and that to complete a swap.
Just had a bad trade. She originally offered 6 pampers codes, then said she would only trade 4. After settling on 5 she refused to send me the codes. I told her to forget about it before sending my coupons in the mail so nothing was lost on my end... I think she ought to be sure what she is willing to trade before offering
Post by nikki123108 on Nov 19, 2010 13:32:32 GMT -5
I traded with her once & it took a long time to get her end of the trade. I went to trade with her again & he would say that she will trade for something & then back out on it. It is very frustrating, so I decided not to trade with her.
I've had some issues with her too. She asks for more than agreed upon after the deal is made. "Since you are already sending me the abc, then can you also include the xyz in the swap?" (with nothing else on her part)
Post by mrsmiller080407 on Dec 17, 2010 12:15:28 GMT -5
I told her I was hesitant to swap with her because of her negative feedback. She said she would send first (a $14 Starbucks GC). After 10 days I contacted her, as I have had my envelope ready to mail for 10 days. She confused me with someone else, then got angry that I hadn't sent mine (as agreed) and offered me a $5 Amazon card.
Here is her email to me today:
well if u didnt send out to me first than why are u that upset and we had an hard time in the first place on trying to make an swap happend and your not telling me the truth here. i did indeed tell YOU i was going to send u to you first and i had forgotten. no excuse its the truth. im sorry that you had intended to wait for my swap for the starbucks are gifts but you kinda waited too long by now. i can send you an amazon gc in the email worth 5.00
Save yourself the trouble and do not trade with her. She is awful.
Post by mrsmiller080407 on Dec 17, 2010 12:20:00 GMT -5
She is also threatening me against listing negative feedback:
well thats your view and i can tell them how awful you were in the begining on how you wanted way to much and you barely went for 14 in an gc and besides if i didnt send to you first than you have really NO CASE to report me its the other way around. i can say that you harrassed me and i offered on what i could right now you turned down an amazon code and i was wiling to fix it now, but your on your high horse. i have alot of friends and everyone swaps with me regardless and u can say negative about me all you WANT but karma will kick you in the ass. please leave me alone now or ill report you and make you look bad on there.
If she didn't like the deal, she didn't have to take it, but forgetting and threatening another swapper are unacceptable. Watch out for her.
Post by aubreysmom on Dec 17, 2010 12:21:49 GMT -5
I completely agree! She did the same thing to me recently. She reduced her offer once we already agreed on a trade. I had traded with her once before with no issues, so I thought I would try again. The second time was a big mess! She was rude and nasty to me and very condescending... and I will never swap with her again. I just can't stand to swap with people like that!!
Last Edit: Dec 17, 2010 12:22:34 GMT -5 by aubreysmom
I had Huggies coupons that I wanted to swap for stamps since don't use Huggies. As with every post I put the brand, type and expiration date. She pm'd me "Yes I want them I'll send the stamps asap" okay and again I always make sure ppl know what they are swapping for, again, "Yes I'll send the stamps" So instead of me usually mailing out the swap right away I waited because I had her about her. So low and behold she emails me a few days later. "you are going to hate me, But I just realize my baby doesn't use that type. I don't want to swap after all" This b-----! If I would have mailed of my part there would have been some issues but thankfully I waited. I think her problem is she takes things to fast, she needs to slow her roll and make sure she has what she is swapping or she actually needs what she says she wants to swap.
SORRY, I meant to say Private Message Not Email, according to DFM I'm a "liar" for making that mistake. And DFM, I said No Worries because it I'm a nice person and I was happy that it didn't go bad. As I said in my review, IF IT HAD GONE BAD, there would have been problems!
Last Edit: Dec 17, 2010 13:56:08 GMT -5 by apes831